How to Maintain a Positive Outlook as a Family Caregiver

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Keeping a rosy disposition when you’re caring for an elderly loved one isn’t always easy. There are plenty of circumstances beyond your control, of course, but the one thing that you can control is how you approach the circumstances that you’re in. Helping yourself to maintain the best outlook possible can help to ward off depression and other effects of stress.

Remember You Can Choose Your Attitude

It’s not always easy to remember when you’re wrestling with a bad situation, but you can always choose how you approach the situation. For example, when you’re dealing with a mix-up at the pharmacy, you can choose to see the negative aspects or you can choose to see the positive aspects. Your attitude doesn’t change the situation, but it can change the energy that you bring to the situation. Bringing a negative attitude can be exactly what you don’t need in order to get a peaceful resolution that works for everyone. If you find yourself stuck in a situation with not quite the attitude that you want, take a few minutes to breathe and center yourself so you can change your approach.

Remember That You’re Human

When you first set out to figure out how to keep a positive attitude going while you’re a family caregiver, one factor often gets overlooked. You’re a human being. You’re going to have ups and downs as well as both good days and bad days. Acknowledging your humanity means also accepting that you’re not perfect and that you don’t have to maintain perfect emotions at all times. That doesn’t mean that you can’t be positive, of course, but you can be realistic while still being upbeat.

You Don’t Have to Do it All

As a family caregiver, you don’t have do it all and you most definitely shouldn’t try to do it all. Having some help with the day-to-day aspects of caregiving can help a lot when it comes to keeping a positive attitude. Try asking other family members and friends for help when they can. If that’s not an option, look into hiring elderly care providers. The more you try to go it alone, the harder being a family caregiver will seem.

Keeping a positive attitude isn’t difficult as long as you don’t overload yourself.

If you or an aging loved one are considering elderly care in Vienna, VA, call the caring staff at Medical Professionals On Call today. 703-273-8818

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Michelle DeFilippis

I graduated with a BS degree and had been selling medical equipment to hospitals, clinics and technicians. More recently, a family member was diagnosed with dementia and we, as a family, realized we were not prepared t care for her. We were thrown into that whirlpool of hospital stays, 24/7 live-in care, skilled care, caring for mom ourselves and finally, now daily home care. This was such a stressful time that I started thinking there had to be other people, other families as overwhelmed and unprepared as we were.

Medical Professionals On Call has such a caring, professional staff who are available to step in with whatever level of care necessary for loved ones and to relieve you of that stress.

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